Mother's Tears of Love
So many photographers. So many options. So many qualities and prices and packages and availabilities; how do you choose? How do you shuffle through all the different options? How do you not get suffocated? Right now, you need to know that your wedding is important. It is special. This particular event, with these specific people, will never happen again. This is a one shot chance to capture all the memories of that day. If you are reading this, you know that you shouldn't trust your wedding photographs to just anyone. You understand that your wedding is worth every penny that you are putting into it. This blog will give you so much power. I want to help make sure that you don't get stuck with 'joe-bob or jane-doe' who simply bought an expensive camera and call themselves a 'photographer'.
When I was getting married, which feels like forever ago but was only 4 years, I was petrified to go to a wedding venue event. Everyone making a big deal out a big celebration that costs thousands of dollars and only lasts for a few hours! I remember opening the door to the duke energy center in downtown Cincinnati, going up the escalators, and into the giant room full of people wanting my money. My sister-in-law having won free tickets was very excited, and my mother-in-law couldn't wait to try all the free cake samples. Me on the other hand, I was so scared. I felt like I was a cash cow. Did any of these professional really care about me and my wedding? Do they really listen and care for what I want to look back at every year? So after walking through the door, I stuck the bride sticker on the pocket of my pants and allowed my shirt to hide it. I just wanted to be one of the women in the crowd. I became a chameleon and I was happy! My goal was to get ideas, maybe try cakes, but to observe photographers.
I was already looking at becoming a photographer myself, so my research on what made a good photographer was basically done, but I still needed to talk with a professional and get the real them. I wanted a passionate professional who would not know I was the bride, but would still treat me with the upmost respect. In honesty, this was the best thing ever because I quickly eliminated several "professionals" who pushed me away because they didn't see the name tag that said bride, mine was hidden for that exact reason.
I did find my photographer that day, and actually found two options. One had their entire staff booked for our wedding date, but thankfully the second still had one of their highly recommended photographers available. Both of the professionals answered my questions and really hit the hammer on the nail. Not because they knew what to say, but because when they said it, I could feel and see that they meant every word. They may have had passion in their art, but they also showed that they cared about 'my wedding' when they spoke to me.
P.S. both photographers had no idea I was the bride until I told them after the conversation. I originally told them I was helping gather information, which was true. I was helping gather information for my husband! *wink*wink*
So let's get down to it. What are the things you should be thinking about and asking professional photographers when on the hunt? This will help you separate the money makers from the passionate ones, and the mediocre from the top artists.
Your wedding is special. This event, with these people will only happen once. Your memories are priceless. Don't let just anyone capture photographs of your wedding. The last thing you want to do is hire a photographer just because they have a good price. Do you want to regret that decision for the rest of your life? Do you want to see bad photo every time you look at your wedding? Don’t set yourself up for failure.
Most of all don’t be afraid to ask questions. The more questions you ask the better chance you will have to get the photographer you want. You also increase the chances of getting photographs you will love. This is powerful knowledge, I'm giving to you. You should believe that the photographs of your wedding really don't have a price value! Your memories are priceless! Your memories should come to life every time you look back at them. Don’t gamble with your wedding day. Be 100% sure that your photographer is giving you their all, that you are getting the best you can get!
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